To: Jeff

Your love must be an ocean and a stream, A song and silence, pilgrimage and end. It will change as will and passion bend, Yet, changeless, be what life can only seem. Love remains the night beyond the dream, The choice that cannot choose but reason rend, The fact that makes a fortune of a friend, And will the travesties of time redeem. So flow with pleasure down the mountainside, Through years and years of paradise and pain, Choosing as you change to stay combined. For there is something underneath the ride, That you need only turn to, to attain, A grace so beautiful it stops the wind.

Love,

Toi

Toi has chosen friends near and dear to her heart to participate in her wedding. All of these friends are different and each posesses a quality that enables Toi to call each a friend. I will briefly describe the wedding party.

LaFondra Caldwell - Bride aka "Diva"
Jeff Caldwell - Groom aka "Big Brother"
Tammy Anderson - Matron of Honor aka "Shortie"
Sherrell Coleman - Maid of Honor aka "Old Maid of Honor"
Cheryl Jones - Bridesmaid aka "all that and 4 bags of chips"
LaWunza McKinney - Bridesmaid aka "busy bee"
Juanita Smith - Bridesmaid aka "Make Believe"



Armanda Blair - wedding planner aka "you betta recognize"
Rachel Parker - wedding planner aka "sweet pea"

Unlimited Travel will be the travel Agency that we are going through we will be leaving on Nov.8th and returning on Nov.12th.Flying on America Air lines.

Jeff & Toi,

A wedding is the entrance to a marriage: One drives through, and suddenly one's there! Stepping from a fairy tale carriage, Into quite ordinary air. Life is now a dance, though beautiful, Requiring intense coordination; Each self becomes, in ways inscrutable, More fully what it is in combination. And we who love you wait, of course, outside, As you become through love that mystery: One flesh made whole of separate groom and bride; Two selves, one life; two notes, one harmony. When you are one, we then may cherish two: Loving not just one, but both of you.

- Your wedding party